To get back to the future, take care of today
In the science-fiction classic, Back to the Future, Marty McFly (Michael J. Fox) journeys 30 years back in time – from 1985 to 1955. While in the past, he saves his father (then only a teenager) from being hit by an oncoming car. In doing so, Marty unintentionally breaks the chain of events that led his father and mother to fall in love. Realizing he has jeopardized his future existence (by accidentally keeping his mom and dad apart), Marty spends the bulk of the movie attempting to repair the consequences of his actions. Before he can travel back to the future, he has to set the past aright by getting his parents back together.
Unfortunately, many of us spend our days like Marty McFly, trying to clean up the messes we’ve made. We would rather be pushing ahead into the future, but we’re stuck dealing with the adverse consequences of past actions. Before we can move forward, we have to restore broken family relationships, pay off debt, regain our health, or rebuild the trust of a boss. On account of poor decisions that we made yesterday, we’re forced to be reactive rather than proactive.
Preparing
Let’s you focus on today
Increases efficiency
Increases confidence
Saves money
Pays now for tomorrow
Takes you to a higher level
Repairing
Makes you focus on yesterday
Increases confidence
Consumes time
Increases costs
Pays now for yesterday
Becomes an obstacle of growth
Today matters
If I could shadow you for 24-hours on a typical day and observe your routine, I could tell you, with over 90 percent certainty, whether you’ll be repairing the past or enjoying your future 10 years from now. At first blush, that claim may sound overconfident or entirely too premature. However, I’ve found that the secret of our success is determined by our daily agendas. We cannot escape the weight of our habits and patterns of behavior. The only hope for changing our lives is to change something we do daily.
In life, we can either play now and pay later, or pay now and play later. Either way, we have to pay. However, if we choose the easy route now, and delay making good decisions and developing sound habits until later, then the price of the payment rises. On the other hand, good decisions are like good investments; they compound over time. The earlier in life we make them, the better off we’ll be.
Today may seem like an ordinary day, but where we end up in life largely depends on how we spend our ordinary days. Our behavior today can either prepare us for an amazing future or shatter our world so that tomorrow is spent putting the pieces back together and making repairs. What changes do you need to make today so that, instead of continually patching up the past, you can get back to the future?
Reprinted with permission from The John Maxwell Company and Inspire Leadership Consultancy. Attend The Power of Connection with Anthony Pangilinan on August 10 at The Carlos P. Romulo Auditorium of the RCBC Tower,Ayala Ave. Makati. To register, call 687-2614/706-4853. Visit us at www.inspireleaders.com.ph
